General Resources

The Magic of Forgiveness
Tian Dayton

Receiving Love: Transform Your Relationship by Letting Yourself be Loved
Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt

Aging Parents, Aging Children: How to Stay Sane and Survive
Aronson Ed.D. and Bakur Weiner PH.D.

Angry All the Time: An Emergency Guide to Anger Control
Ron Potter-Efron, MSW

The Dance of Intimacy
Harriet Lerner

Workaholics: The Respectable Addicts
Barbara Killinger, Ph.D.

The Courage to Change
Dennis Wholey

Self Defeating Behaviors
Cudney and Hardy

When Perfect Isn't Good Enough
Anthony PH.D. and Swinson M.C.

The Success Principles
Jack Canfield

Thriving Through Crisis
Bill O'Hanlon

 

Couples/Marriage

Fighting For Your Marriage
Howard J. Markman

Boundaries in Marriage
Cloud and Townsend

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
Gary Chapman

Affairs
Stephanie Brown

Forgive for Good
Dr. Luskin

How Could You Do This to Me?
Dr. Jane Greer

Relationships: No One Taught Us How to Live Happily Ever After
Dr. Donna Brissie

Second Chances
Wallerstein and Blakeslee

His Needs, Her Needs
Harley

Couple Skills
McKay, Fanning, Poleg

Unfaithful: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
Gary and Mona Shriver

The Couples Comfort Book: A Creative Guide for Renewing Passion, Pleasure and Commitment
Jennifer Louken

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail
John Gottman

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
Keeping the Love You Find: A Guide for Singles
Harville Hendrix, PH.D.

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships
David Schnarch

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
John Gottman and Nan Silver

After the Affair
Janis Abrams Spring

Intimacy After Infidelity
Steven Soloman

Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After
Infidelity
Shirley Glass

Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus
John Gray

 

Relationship Issues

Forgiveness
Dr. Sidney B. and Suzanne Simon

Facing Love Addiction
Pia Mellody

Driven to Distraction - Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit
Disorder from Childhood Through Adulthood
Edward Hallowell

I Only Say This Because I Love You
Deborah Tannen

Strengthening Your Step Family
Einstein and Albert

The Stepfamily
Einstein

The Intimacy Struggle
Janet Woititz

Is It You, Me, or Adult A.D.D.? Stopping the Roller Coaster When Someone You Love Has Attention Deficit Disorder
Gine Pera and Russell Barkley


Dealing with Grief and Loss


I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping and Healing After The
Sudden Death of a Loved One
Brook Noel

How To Survive the Loss of a Love
By Peter McWilliams, Harold H. Bloomfield, Melba Colgrove

Necessary Losses - The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Grow
J. Voirst

When Bad Things Happen to Good People
Kushner

The Grief Recovery Handbook
James and Friedman

Living Beyond Loss
Walsh and McGoldrick

Life is Goodbye, Life is Hello: Grieving Well Through all Kinds of Loss
Alla Renee Bozarth Ph.D.

 

Depression

Hand Me Down Blues
Michael Yapko Ph.D.

The Feeling Good Handbook
David Burns

Understanding Depression
Richard O'Connor Ph.D.

Mind Over Mood
Dennis Greenberger and Christine Padesky

Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life
Martin Seligman

Out of the Darkness, Into the Light: A Journey of Inner Healing
Gerald Jampolsky MD

Here Comes the Sun: Finding Your Way out of Depression
Rosellini and Worden

 

Anxiety/Panic and Stress Management

Life Balance
Linda and Richard Eyre

When Panic Attacks: The New, Drug-Free Anxiety Therapy That Can Change
Your Life
David Burns

An End to Panic
Zuercher-White

Freedom from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: A Personalized Recovery Program for Living with Uncertainty
Jonathan Grayson

The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook
Edmund Bourne

A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook
Bob Stahl and Elisha Goldstein


Adult Children of Alcoholics And Other Dysfunctional Family Systems

Adult Child's Guide to What's Normal
John and Linda Friel

Learning to Love Yourself
Sharon Wegscheider Cruse

Adult Children of Alcoholics Syndrome
Wayne Kritsberg

The Language of Letting Go
Melody Beattie

An ACOA's Guide to Raising Healthy Kids
Mastrich and Birnes

The Complete ACOA Sourcebook
Janet Woititz Ed.D.


CoDependency

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for
Yourself
Melody Beattie

Beyond Codependency
Melody Beattie

Codependence
Charles Whitfield M.D.

Love is a Choice: Recovery for Codependent Relationships
Hernfelt, Mimirth, Meier



Assertiveness and Empowerment

Empowerment
David Gershan and Gail Straub


Family of Origin Issues


You Can Go Home Again
Monica McGoldrick


Eating Concerns/Body Image

When Food is Love: Exploring the Relationship Between Eating and Intimacy
Geneen Roth

Women, Food and God
Geneen Roth

Feeding the Compulsive Heart: The Experience of Compulsive Eating
Geneen Roth

Overcoming Binge Eating
Christropher Fairburn, Ph.D.

When Women Stop Hating Their Bodies: Freeing Yourself from Food and Weight
Obsession
Jane Hirschmann


Parenting

Boundaries with Kids
Cloud and Townsend

Smart Love: The Compassionate Alternative to Discipline That Will Make You a Better Parent
and Your Child a Better Person
Martha Piper

Giving the Love that Heals: A Guide for Parents
Harville Hendrix

Parenting from the Inside Out
Daniel Siegel

I'm Not Mad, I just Hate You!: A New Understanding of Mother-Daughter Conflict
Roni Cohen, Ph.D., Michelle Sandler, Roni Sliver, Michelle Cohen-Sandler

The Winning Family
Hart

Positive Discipline for Teenagers: Empowering Your Teens and Yourself Through Kind and Firm Parenting
Jane Nelsen, Lynn Lott

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
Adele Faber

Changing Your Child's Behavior By Changing Yours: 13 New Tricks to Get Kids to Cooperate
Chernofsky and Gage

Raising Your Spirited Child: A Guide for Parents Whose Child Is More Intense, Sensitive,Perceptive, Persisten and Energetic
Mary Sheedy Kurcinka

Reviving Ophelia - Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls
Mary Pipher

 

Women's Issues

Women's Rites of Passage: How to Embrace Change and Celebrate Life
Abigail Brenner M.D.

Self-Nurture: Learning to Care for Yourself as Effectively as You Care for Everyone Else
Alice Domar and Henry Dreher

Doing It All isn't Everything: A Woman's Guide to Harmony and Empowerment
C. Zeriger PH.D. and S. Allen

Before the Change: Taking Charge of Your Perimenopause
Ann Louise Gittleman

The Silent Passage
Gail Sheehy

The Wounded Woman - Healing the Father-Daughter Relationship
L. Schierse Leonard

The Courage to Be Yourself: A Woman's Guide to Growing beyond Emotional
Dependence
Sue Patton Thoele

The Courage to Heal - A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
E. Bass and L. Davis

The Dance of Anger - A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate
Relationships
Harriet Lerner

Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom - Creating Physical and Emotional Health and
Healing
Christine Northrup


Men's Issues

I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male
Depression
Terrence Real

Beyond Anger: A Guide for Men: How to Free Yourself from the Grip of
Anger and Get More Out of Life
Thomas Harbin

Finding Our Fathers - How a Man's Life Is Shaped by His Relationship with
His Father
S. Osherson

When Good Men Behave Badly: Change Your Behavior, Change Your Relationship
David Wexler

 

Abuse/Incest/Domestic Violence


The Verbally Abusive Relationship
Patricia Evans

You Can't Say That to Me: Stopping the Pain of Verbal Abuse
Suzette Hadn Elgin PH.D.

Strong at the Broken Places: Overcoming the Trauma of Childhood Abuse
Linda Sanford

Before It's Too Late: Helping Women in Controlling or Abusive Relationships
Robert Ackerman, Ph.D.

The Courage to Heal
Bass and Davis

 

Sexual Issues

Rekindling Desire
Barry McCarthy

Real Sex for Real Women
Laura Berman

Intimacy and Desire: Awaken the Passion in Your Relationship
David Schnarch

The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple's Guide
Michele Weiner-Davis

Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
Patrick Carnes

For Women Only: A Revolutionary Gide to Overcoming Sexual Dysfunction and Reclaiming Your Sex Life
Laura Berman, Ph.D.

The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Wendy Malz

Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child
Abuse
Mike Lew

 

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